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<channel><title><![CDATA[Kate Naito, CDBC, CPDT-KA, MS - Home]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home]]></link><description><![CDATA[Home]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 01:31:08 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Teach “Drop It,” for Safety’s Sake]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teach-drop-it-for-safetys-sake]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teach-drop-it-for-safetys-sake#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><category><![CDATA[L: Leash Walking]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teach-drop-it-for-safetys-sake</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp; &nbsp;&ldquo;Max coughed up two socks last night,&rdquo; &ldquo;Zippy&rsquo;s sidewalk snacking has cost me thousands in ER vet bills,&rdquo; and the horror stories go on and on. Teach you pup a reliable Drop It cue before you have a traumatizing story of your own.&nbsp; &nbsp;Drop It instructs the dog to immediately spit out whatever is in his mouth. In extreme cases, it can mean the difference between life and death. The problem is, your dog put that half-eaten pepperoni pizza slice in  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;&ldquo;Max coughed up two socks last night,&rdquo; &ldquo;Zippy&rsquo;s sidewalk snacking has cost me thousands in ER vet bills,&rdquo; and the horror stories go on and on. Teach you pup a reliable Drop It cue before you have a traumatizing story of your own.</font></span><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;Drop It instructs the dog to immediately spit out whatever is in his mouth. In extreme cases, it can mean the difference between life and death. The problem is, your dog put that half-eaten pepperoni pizza slice in his mouth for a reason -- he wants it! Once it&rsquo;s firmly in his mouth, it&rsquo;s really up to him whether he will drop it or not. So it&rsquo;s your job to convince him that spitting out the pizza is actually more fun and rewarding than eating it.</font></span><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;Here are three levels of Drop It. Work your way up by increasing the difficulty in very small increments, to ensure your dog is successful at every step. In real life, do not tell your dog to &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; unless you are almost certain he will. If your dog is still a the beginner levels of Drop It and he picks up something delicious (to him) on your walk, use the Level 1 method to handle snacking emergencies.</font></span><br /><em>&nbsp; &nbsp;Cick Read More if you don't see the text below.</em></div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/dmBFak8JDTA?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Level 1: Emergency Drop It</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;This is a starting point for dogs with unreliable Drop It skills. Use this method for real-life emergencies until your dog fully learns to drop things on cue. Remember to bring extra tasty treats on your walks, in case such an emergency should arise.</font><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">When your dog grabs a chicken bone or other dangerous item, immediately dump all of your extra tasty treats on the ground. Scatter them in all directions.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Your dog, seeing this treat explosion, will spit out the chicken bone and start vacuuming the treats.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">While he&rsquo;s doing this, remove the chicken bone from your path and then continue on your walk.&nbsp;</font></li></ol><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Level 2: Share an Item</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;This teaches the principle of Drop It, showing your dog that spitting out an item will get him something even better in return. Repeat this activity with as many different (safe) items as you can find.</font><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Share a long toy (like a rope toy) or long chewy (like a bully stick) with your dog. Do not let go.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Before he gets too invested in the toy, say &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; once.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Immediately trade the toy for a &ldquo;surprise" treat from your pocket. He will spit out the toy when he sees the treat. Mark &ldquo;good dog!&rdquo; and reward with the treat.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Practice this no more than three times. Do a few short sessions for several days, until he&rsquo;s dropping items with ease.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Now, delay the reward. Say &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; and wait for him to spit it out. When he drops it, dig into your pocket for the reward.&nbsp;</font></li></ol><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Level 3: All Mine!</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;Now you will give your dog the entire item, rather than share it. To ensure success, start with a very boring object to drop. You can also put him on leash to prevent him from running off.</font><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Give the dog full possession of a low-value item, only for a second or two.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Say &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; once and wait for him to spit it out. When he does, reward with an even better treat or toy. (If he doesn&rsquo;t drop it, go back to level 2.)</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Practice in short sessions, inside and outside, using a variety of (safe) items to drop.</font></li></ol><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp; &nbsp;By convincing your dog that Drop It is a actually fun game with big rewards, you can turn your sidewalk snacker into a master of spitting things out.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/animal-canine-cute-5830_orig.jpg" alt="teach your dog drop it" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Crate Games for Dogs of All Ages]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/crate-games]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/crate-games#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 11:59:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Crate training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/crate-games</guid><description><![CDATA[       Some dogs have a complicated relationship with their crates. Perhaps Rosie naps in her crate, eat her meals in her crate, and generally likes the cozy space... until the door is locked.&nbsp;If this sounds familiar, let's play some fun, simple crate games with your dog to get her comfortable with the crate door being closed. Plan to keep these games short and enjoyable for your pup in the beginning, so she learns that being closed inside the crate is nothing to fear.Watch this video for s [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/3BFBYPbzAXY?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">Some dogs have a complicated relationship with their crates. Perhaps Rosie naps in her crate, eat her meals in her crate, and generally likes the cozy space... until the door is locked.&nbsp;<br /><br />If this sounds familiar, let's play some fun, simple crate games with your dog to get her comfortable with the crate door being closed. Plan to keep these games short and enjoyable for your pup in the beginning, so she learns that being closed inside the crate is nothing to fear.<br /><br />Watch this video for some ideas!&nbsp;<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My dog was kicked out of daycare. Now what?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-was-kicked-out-of-daycare-now-what]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-was-kicked-out-of-daycare-now-what#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sports]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-was-kicked-out-of-daycare-now-what</guid><description><![CDATA[ Don&rsquo;t worry, your daycare dropout isn&rsquo;t a bad dog! Just as some people don&rsquo;t thrive at a crowded concert or packed party, a daycare setting isn&rsquo;t right for all dogs. If your dog was asked not to return to a daycare facility, consider these exercise options instead.Daycare: Yes or No?Doggie daycare is a fantastic outlet for lots of social, energetic dogs. The dogs get tons of stimulation and exercise at daycare while their people are at work, and by the evening, everyone  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/dog-park-play.jpg?1553521699" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Dogs playing nicely " class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><font color="#2a2a2a">Don&rsquo;t worry, your daycare dropout isn&rsquo;t a bad dog! Just as some people don&rsquo;t thrive at a crowded concert or packed party, a daycare setting isn&rsquo;t right for all dogs. If your dog was asked not to return to a daycare facility, consider these exercise options instead.</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong>Daycare: Yes or No?</strong><br />Doggie daycare is a fantastic outlet for lots of social, energetic dogs. The dogs get tons of stimulation and exercise at daycare while their people are at work, and by the evening, everyone is ready to wind down together. But there are many dogs that don&rsquo;t do well in the bustling daycare environment. This may include:</font><ul><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">older dogs with less patience for exuberant adolescents,</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">dogs that play too rough or get overly aroused,</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">dogs that need a lot of personal space,</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">dogs that are too small to safely interact with the other dogs,</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">puppies that have not been vaccinated, or adults that haven't been spayed/neutered.</font></span></span></li></ul><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">If your dog falls into one of these categories, don&rsquo;t panic. There are plenty of other ways to give your dog the exercise and stimulation he needs.</font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Playdates with doggie friends</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">If your dog is selective about his canine companions, set up playdates with the dogs with whom he plays well. Friends and neighbors are usually happy to bring their dogs over for a casual supervised (and free!) play session, and social media is . While playdates may not be possible every day of the week, this option provides quality of play over quantity of play.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Dog walker (or jogger)</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">A qualified dog walker from a reputable dog walking company can give your dog a midday break on workdays. Many walkers offer pack walks; even though the dogs aren&rsquo;t playing, pack walks provide some level of doggie interaction. Your local walker may even be able to take your dog for a run, if that&rsquo;s more your dog&rsquo;s thing.</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Fetch&nbsp;</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">If you have limited time to expend your dog&rsquo;s energy, use it playing a game like fetch. For many dogs, the more running he can do, the better his physical and mental state will be. Fetch can be played indoors in a hallway, and there are even automatic ball launchers (https://www.chewy.com/petsafe-automatic-ball-launcher-dog/dp/132907) that allow dogs to play fetch when home alone (provided you feel it is safe).&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Scent games</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Scent games are a wonderful way to burn a dog&rsquo;s mental energy without getting him too wound up physically. Plus, these games are easy to set up and require little effort on your part. You can set up a Find It game as you leave the house, which will keep your pup entertained for several minutes after you&rsquo;ve left. Read my article <a href="https://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/beat-the-winter-blues-with-scent-games/" target="_blank">here</a>&nbsp;to learn how. You have to feed your dog anyway, so why not use his food as a way to get his brain thinking?</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Agility and other sports</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Agility is one of many dog sports that can have a major impact on your dog&rsquo;s wellbeing. Agility is not just about running and jumping; rather, it teaches your dog to interact with various obstacles while focusing simultaneously on you and on the course. It it both challenging and highly rewarding. Agility is generally learned in group or private lessons, but you can also find&nbsp;<a href="https://www.fenzidogsportsacademy.com/index.php/courses/school-of-agility" target="_blank">classes online</a>&nbsp;to teach you some basics at home.</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Trick training&nbsp;</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">A little training can go a long way towards having a balanced, satisfied, and well-mannered dog. Even trick training has major benefits. Tricks teach you and your dog how to communicate and work together. Some tricks -- such as sit pretty, take a bow, and crawl -- can even stretch or build muscle, giving your pup an added physical workout.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Remember, daycare is a place for social dogs to enjoy each other&rsquo;s company. If that environment isn&rsquo;t the right match for your pup, find an outlet that truly speaks to your dog!</font></div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/3mjKPirMAJI?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teething Puppy Survival Guide]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teething-puppy-survival-guide]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teething-puppy-survival-guide#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><category><![CDATA[Puppies]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teething-puppy-survival-guide</guid><description><![CDATA[Puppies are cute for a reason. Those fluffy little jowls are hiding a set of razor-sharp, flesh-searing teeth, and between those floppy ears is a brain that is hard-wired to chew on everything in sight.Teething puppies simply cannot help themselves. Most puppies have an insatiable urge to chew whatever they can get their paws on, and when they play, they have little regard for your delicate human skin. Children under ten or so, as well as people with long hair or flowing clothes, are the most vu [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span>Puppies are cute for a reason. Those fluffy little jowls are hiding a set of razor-sharp, flesh-searing teeth, and between those floppy ears is a brain that is hard-wired to chew on everything in sight.</span><br /><br /><span>Teething puppies simply cannot help themselves. Most puppies have an insatiable urge to chew whatever they can get their paws on, and when they play, they have little regard for your delicate human skin. Children under ten or so, as well as people with long hair or flowing clothes, are the most vulnerable to these petite predators, but really, no one is safe from puppy teeth. It takes months for a dog&rsquo;s adult teeth to come in, so it&rsquo;s important to have a plan to combat biting and chewing as soon as your puppy comes home. Here are ways to ensure your puppy will learn to be polite with his teeth.</span><br /><em>Click "Read More" if you don't see the text below.</em></div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/o1OorG48I08?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><span>Toys: The More, the Merrier</span></strong><br />You can&rsquo;t have enough toys. I&rsquo;m talking about more than just one rope, one plush, and one treat-dispensing one. Wherever your puppy will be spending his time, he should have numerous toys in view at all times. Rotating toys is a great way to keep the toys interesting, provided that you leave at the very least six out per day.<br /><br />Some puppies seem to gravitate to inappropriate &ldquo;toys&rdquo; such as shoes, while snubbing their actual toys. This is often due to your reaction to that toy. When the puppy picks up your shoe, everyone jumps up and starts running around frantically, playing a rousing game of can&rsquo;t-catch-me. What fun! But when he pounces on his rope toy, no one seems to bat an eye. The solution is to add value to the appropriate toys. Whenever your puppy grabs his rope toy, jump up and start playing with him. That&rsquo;s a toy he&rsquo;ll want to pick up again!<br /><br /><strong><span>Redirect to Appropriate Toys</span></strong><br />To your puppy, everything is a potential chew toy. It&rsquo;s your job not just to teach him &ldquo;let&rsquo;s not eat that table leg&rdquo; but also &ldquo;put this chewy in your mouth instead.&rdquo; When your dog is in chewing-mode, he must have appropriate chew toys or edible chewies in front of him, so he can direct his attention to those. If (well, when) he mistakenly goes for the table leg instead, redirect him to an appropriate toy or chewy. You may have to do this over and over again in these first few months, but hang in there.<br /><br />If your little one grabs your clothing or feet while you&rsquo;re trying to walk, redirect him. Whenever you walk, carry a long toy, or cut off a long piece of fabric (think sweatshirt sleeve, tube sock, or pant leg), which you will drag behind you. This gives your puppy an appropriate item to sink his teeth into when he really just can&rsquo;t help himself around a moving target. Instruct kids in the house to do the same, and you&rsquo;ll have noticeably more peace between species.<br /><br /><strong><span>Crate the Puppy... or your Stuff</span></strong><br />With puppies, there are times when you just have to remove him from the situation. If your dog is in full-on chewing or biting mode and has ignored your redirections, it&rsquo;s best to put him in his crate or pen for a few minutes with an appropriate chew toy. Your puppy should also be safely enclosed in a pen or small gated area when you&rsquo;re not there to actively watch him. (You know that the minute you turn your back, he will either poop on your carpet or devour an heirloom.)<br /><br />Even when you&rsquo;re in the room supervising your puppy as he plays, you may want to crate your stuff. This means, if your puppy can&rsquo;t resist a certain table leg, put a fence or other barrier around it, so he cannot have access to this forbidden delicacy. Management is a perfectly acceptable way to prevent your puppy from getting into trouble.<br /><br /><strong><span>Teach Bite Inhibition</span></strong><br />It&rsquo;s never too early to learn polite play. By following a few rules for play, your puppy will learn what constitutes acceptable play behavior and what does not. All play should involve a toy; never roughhouse or wrestle with a puppy, as this encourages the very biting behavior that you are trying to stop. Be a good role model and set your dog up for success.<br /><br />To start any game, wait for your puppy to sit. You don&rsquo;t have to cue anything; just patiently wait for it. Sitting will become his way of saying &ldquo;please.&rdquo; Once he&rsquo;s sat, start the game. Occasionally practice Drop It (<a href="https://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/teach-drop-command-safetys-sake/" target="_blank">see my article here</a>) during the game, so he learns to listen to you even when he&rsquo;s excited. If he accidentally bites you or your clothes, remove the toy and ignore him for five seconds or so. The consequence to his bite is that he loses his playmate for a moment. Then wait for him to sit before starting the game again.<br /><br /><strong>Get His Energy Out</strong><br />Proper socialization is a sprawling topic in itself, but I urge you to follow the advice of veterinary behaviorists (<a href="https://avsab.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Puppy_Socialization_Position_Statement_Download_-_10-3-14.pdf" target="_blank">more info here</a>), who recommend safe ways to get your puppy out in the world as early as possible. Trainer-led puppy kindergarten or play groups are the best avenue, as the facility should be sterilized, the vaccinations checked, and the play supervised. Short positive training sessions are also great for burning mental energy. A puppy who lives an enriched life with his physical and mental needs met will not have to resort to destructive chewing to pass the time.<br /><br />You can do everything right and still have to deal with some puppy biting and chewing. Just remember that every little bit helps. Even if your puppy struggles to do the right thing with his teeth, the groundwork you&rsquo;ve laid for polite play and a balanced lifestyle will benefit him as he matures into a well-rounded adult.<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/img-2175_1_orig.jpg" alt="Puppy teething solutions" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Such purity, such innocence, such... insanely sharp teeth. </div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Grrrowling! What to do (and not do)]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/grrrowling-what-to-do-and-not-do]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/grrrowling-what-to-do-and-not-do#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Behavior Issues]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/grrrowling-what-to-do-and-not-do</guid><description><![CDATA[Even for professionals, growling can be scary. Perhaps you approached your dog while chewing a bone, and were met with a hard stare and low growl. Or maybe your dog isn't sure about your houseguests, hanging back and growling whenever they move around the room. If you find yourself face-to-face with a growling dog, keep a few things in mind.&nbsp;1.&nbsp;Growling is communication.&nbsp;It's neither good nor bad, but rather a way for your dog to communicate his feelings at that moment. And althou [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Even for professionals, growling can be scary. Perhaps you approached your dog while chewing a bone, and were met with a hard stare and low growl. Or maybe your dog isn't sure about your houseguests, hanging back and growling whenever they move around the room. If you find yourself face-to-face with a growling dog, keep a few things in mind.&nbsp;<br></div><div><div id="643066700262919230" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/series-video?id=8585&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div><div class="paragraph"><span>1.&nbsp;</span><strong>Growling is communication.</strong><span>&nbsp;It's neither good nor bad, but rather a way for your dog to communicate his feelings at that moment. And although we wish your dog didn't feel the need to growl, we appreciate his ability to communicate his feelings <em>before</em> it turns to snapping or lunging.<br><br>2. <strong>Growling is often a warning</strong>. If you're in a heated conversation with a friend,&nbsp;there's a chance it could lead to an all-out screaming match. But wouldn't it be wise if your friend said, "Look, I'm getting pretty agitated and I think we should take a breather before I say something I'll regret." Well, your friend just growled at you! A growl can indicate a warning to an approaching person or other animal, essentially saying, "I don't want to hurt you, but if you keep approaching me, I will." Heed the growl and give your dog some space.<br><br>3. <strong>Do not punish a growl.</strong> Remember, growling is an important form of communication. If your dog is having negative feelings at that moment, punishment won't make those feelings go away. Many dog professionals worry that, by punishing a growl this time, the dog may skip the growl and go straight to a bite next time. Rather than punish, heed the growl, and slowly and calmly back away. Once you're safely out of the situation, take careful notes of what happened, and contact a certified trainer or behavior consultant to help you choose a training plan, moving forward.&nbsp;</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Trick with a Purpose: Fetch]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trick-with-a-purpose-fetch]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trick-with-a-purpose-fetch#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Recall]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sports]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trick-with-a-purpose-fetch</guid><description><![CDATA[Does your dog play the can&rsquo;t-catch-me game? Steal your shoes? Plow you over as soon as you come home? These unwanted behaviors actually have a fun solution&hellip; fetch!&nbsp;Teaching your dog to chase after an item and bring it back to you may look like just fun and games, but fetching instills good behavior in your dog and helps eliminate naughty behaviors. Fetch teaches your dog a number of valuable skills. First, he learns a solid recall. For the game to continue, Fido must come right [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">Does your dog play the can&rsquo;t-catch-me game? Steal your shoes? Plow you over as soon as you come home? These unwanted behaviors actually have a fun solution&hellip; fetch!</font><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp;<br />Teaching your dog to chase after an item and bring it back to you may look like just fun and games, but fetching instills good behavior in your dog and helps eliminate naughty behaviors. Fetch teaches your dog a number of valuable skills. First, he learns a solid recall. For the game to continue, Fido must come right up to you. Second, he learns how fun it is to "drop it." Fido realizes that giving up an item is much more rewarding than hoarding it. Finally, it teaches productive ways for your dog to channel his energy. If there are times when you know Fido will get overly excited, such as when you come home from work, you can immediately start a game of Fetch to direct his enthusiasm onto a toy, not onto your body.<br /><em>Click "Read More" if you don't see the text below.</em></font><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/adorable-animal-animal-photography-1562983_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Fetch Primer</font></strong><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp;Your games of fetch will go much more smoothly if you have already taught your dog that is it super fun to chase you. I recommend playing the &ldquo;chase game&rdquo; with your dog often, where you say &ldquo;come!&rdquo; and excitedly run away from him, then reward him with treats, a toy, or play for following you. Conversely, he should never learn how fun it is to be chased by you (or any human, including kids). Once Fido has learned that snatching your shoe and racing off initiates a fun can&rsquo;t-catch-me game, you&rsquo;re in trouble. If this has already become an issue in your household, go back to recall basics before expecting a flawless fetch.&nbsp;</font></span><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">&nbsp;<br />While fetch comes naturally to some dogs, there are many others who need your help to learn it. Here are the steps to get you started.</font></span><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">The Recall Part</font></strong><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Get a ball or toy that your dog is crazy about, and wave it around to make him excited. Toss the ball just a few feet away.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">As soon as your dog grabs the ball, run away from him, making lots of noise and using inviting body language to encourage him to chase you.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">When your dog runs after you and spits out the ball, immediately pick it up and throw it again. Don&rsquo;t ask for a sit or any other behavior. His reward for bringing back the ball is the continuation of the game without delay.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Once your dog thoroughly learns the game, and if he tends to jump on you, ask for a "sit" before throwing the ball.</font></li></ol><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">The Drop-It Part</font></strong><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">Many dogs will do the recall and then hesitate to drop the ball. Fear not, it just requires teaching him how boring it is when he keeps the ball. He&rsquo;ll learn that spitting it out is much cooler. For this activity, have two equally awesome balls or toys, one of which is hidden in your pocket.</font></span><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">If your dog comes to you but doesn&rsquo;t release the ball, simply stand there for a few seconds and wait for him to drop it. Don&rsquo;t say &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; because, let&rsquo;s face it, he probably won&rsquo;t.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">If he spits it out, immediately throw the <em>second</em> ball that was hidden in&nbsp;your pocket. This is better than reaching down to pick up the first ball, since some dogs try to snatch the ball before you can get to it.&nbsp;While your dog is off fetching ball #2, you can pick up the one at your feet.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">However, some dogs just won't let go of that ball no matter how long you wait. In this case, it's fine to take the second ball out of your pocket and show it to your dog. As soon as ball #1 falls from his mouth, toss ball #2.&nbsp;</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Repeat this sequence every time. He will soon learn that dropping the ball is the only way to continue playing the game.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">You can add the cue &ldquo;drop it&rdquo; right before you anticipate he will spit out the ball.</font></li></ol><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Mind your Manners</font></strong><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">The skills from fetch can be applied to various real-life situations. When it comes to recall, you&rsquo;ll have an easier time getting your dog to respond, even when there&rsquo;s no ball. This is because your dog will have learned how fun it is to come to you. Likewise, drop-its will have become a game rather than a drag.&nbsp;</font></span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">For dogs who jump on you or your guests, fetch can teach them to redirect their excitement onto something appropriate. Keep a toy or ball by your front entrance. As soon as you come home, start a light game of short-distance fetch and enforce the rules of politeness. Ensure your dog sits before you throw the ball, as in the instructions above. This breaks the cycle of jumping. A dog that politely fetches can also have access to outdoor activities like barbecues or picnics, as adults and kids alike can play with Fido without the fear of being knocked over. Win-win!</font></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Prevent Injury with Ramp Training]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/prevent-injury-with-ramp-training]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/prevent-injury-with-ramp-training#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2024 18:37:15 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/prevent-injury-with-ramp-training</guid><description><![CDATA[One of the most important behaviors I've taught my dogs is how to use a ramp when getting on and off furniture. It's prevented a number of potential injuries, and has given my elderly dog, Beans, the ability to come and go from the couch as she pleases.&nbsp;To get a vet's perspective on ramp training, I asked Dianna Shattuck, DVM, Chief of Staff at High Ridge Animal Hospital in Stamford, CT. And she did not disappoint! Dr. Shattuck provided a number of points that any dog owner, regardless of t [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">One of the most important behaviors I've taught my dogs is how to use a ramp when getting on and off furniture. It's prevented a number of potential injuries, and has given my elderly dog, Beans, the ability to come and go from the couch as she pleases.&nbsp;<br /><br />To get a vet's perspective on ramp training, I asked Dianna Shattuck, DVM, Chief of Staff at High Ridge Animal Hospital in Stamford, CT. And she did not disappoint! Dr. Shattuck provided a number of points that any dog owner, regardless of the dog's age or size, should take to heart.<br /><br />See below for Dr. Shattuck's expertise about keeping your dog injury- and pain-free. And check out my video on ramp training to get started, <em>before</em> your dog gets injured or becomes elderly.&nbsp;</div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/tRswsKCFr4Y?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">Dr. Shattuck explains:<br /><br /><em>The most common concern for this sort of jumping would be for neck and back injuries. It&rsquo;s a very common cause of new neck/back problems, generally in the category of IVDD, intervertebral disc disease. (<a href="https://www.vet.cornell.edu/departments-centers-and-institutes/riney-canine-health-center/canine-health-information/intervertebral-disc-disease" target="_blank">Click here for an excellent resource</a>.)&nbsp; I tell my clients that a small to medium dog jumping off a bed is the rough orthopedic equivalent of a person jumping off the roof of their car.<br /><br /><span>The second concern is the risk of ligamentous injury or tear. The classic example in dogs is what we call a ruptured cranial cruciate ligament, the dog equivalent of an ACL tear in people. This may or may not be accompanied by damage to the meniscus. In moderate to severe cases these sorts of injuries are best managed by surgery. Any sort of jumping or twisting motion can contribute to this type of injury.</span><br /><br /><span>The third concern would be dogs with osteoarthritis. This may be hereditary (such as hip dysplasia in a German Shepherd or elbow dysplasia in a Labrador), age-related, or post-injury. The incidence reported for all dogs with osteoarthritis in North America is 20%, but obviously the percentage is much higher in our older patient population. Osteoarthritis from any cause can be worsened by any activity that causes increased impact on the affected joints.&nbsp; (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7198754/"><span style="color:rgb(9, 79, 209)">https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7198754/</span></a>)</span><br /><br /><span>When a dog has a known back/neck injury or orthopedic injury or disease, our recommendations include the following:</span><br /><br /><span>1. Keep the dog fit and slender! &nbsp;Excess weight exacerbates all orthopedic problems.</span><br /><br /><span>2. Minimize going up and down stairs, especially rapidly.</span><br /><br /><span>3. Train for ramp use; there should be NO jumping from beds, couches, chairs, and decks.</span><br /><br /><span>4. Active families should plan sensibly for what their dog can handle. Dogs are often good-natured optimists by nature; the question, &ldquo;Want to go for a long hike up and down hills and over rocky terrain?&rdquo; will be answered, &ldquo;Yes please!&rdquo; but the dog may pay for this the next day with sore muscles at the least, or a significant worsening of neck/back/joint disease in the worst case.</span><br /><br /><span>5. Slow, steady walking is the best exercise for older dogs or dogs with previous injuries, as well as dogs who are predisposed by breed to IVDD (The poster child for this of course is the Dachshund, but any chondrodystrophic breed is at increased risk. Examples include Shih Tzus, Pekingese, Lhasa Apsos, Corgis, and French Bulldogs.) The dog should walk at a pace that allows them to place each foot on the ground. If dogs are limping or sore after a walk, walks should be shortened.</span><br /><br /><span>6. Dog lifting harnesses are underutilized! They provide stability to help dogs keep their back level while getting where they need to go. Also, importantly, they help save the backs of their human helpers. (My doctor told me that lifting/moving dogs is a very common way for humans to get back injuries!) The Help &lsquo;em up Harness (<a href="http://www.helpemup.com/"><span style="color:rgb(9, 79, 209)">www.helpemup.com</span></a></span><span style="color:rgb(9, 79, 209)">)</span></em><span><em> is the OG, but there are also many knockoffs now.</em><br /><br />Thank you to Dr. Shattuck for this thorough explanation of preventing injuries!</span><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[​My dog has too much energy. Should I adopt a second dog?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-has-too-much-energy-should-i-adopt-a-second-dog]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-has-too-much-energy-should-i-adopt-a-second-dog#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2023 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Adoption and Rescue]]></category><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/my-dog-has-too-much-energy-should-i-adopt-a-second-dog</guid><description><![CDATA[ We know that most dogs are social creatures. If your dog always has extra energy to burn, adopting a second dog might be just what he needs. But before bringing another dog home, consider these questions.&nbsp;Why is my dog so energetic?It&rsquo;s important to understand the cause of your dog&rsquo;s exuberance before you assume a second dog is the solution. Is your dog bouncing off the walls? A second dog may help him get his energy out, but not all energy-releasing activities are equal. For s [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:387px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/dogs-playing.jpg?1561668225" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="second dog" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">We know that most dogs are social creatures. If your dog always has extra energy to burn, adopting a second dog might be just what he needs. But before bringing another dog home, consider these questions.&nbsp;<br /><br /><em>Why is my dog so energetic?</em><br />It&rsquo;s important to understand the cause of your dog&rsquo;s exuberance before you assume a second dog is the solution. Is your dog bouncing off the walls? A second dog may help him get his energy out, but not all energy-releasing activities are equal. For some dogs, play is just what they need, but others will get overstimulated by play, which can lead to crankiness, exhaustion, injury, or a fight. Some dogs are better channeling their energy into a &ldquo;job&rdquo; or sport to keep them mentally stimulated instead of just physically exhausted. Before assuming a second dog is the answer, consider trying dog daycare a few times a week. Ask the staff (or watch on their live stream, if possible) how your dog interacts with the others, and note your dog's behavior when he gets home. Is he relaxed and happy, or overstimulated and cranky?</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><em>How does my current dog react to other dogs in general?</em><br /><span>If your pooch is easygoing and friendly towards other dogs, introducing a new dog has a good chance of going smoothly. However, if you are considering getting a second dog in order to &ldquo;socialize&rdquo; your current pup, you could be setting yourself up for a lot of stress. That would be an unfair responsibility for the incoming dog, who&rsquo;s already overwhelmed by the transition into your home. Furthermore, the socialization process only happens in a dog&rsquo;s first few months of life, so any socialization training after that may require professional help, careful management, and lots of patience. If your adolescent or adult dog is selective or aggressive around other dogs, contact a qualified force-free trainer before bringing a new dog home.</span><br /><br /><em>How does my dog react to other dogs in his personal space?</em><br /><span>If your dog is possessive of his food, toys, beds, or family members, this needs to be addressed before bringing a new dog into your life. Resource guarders can peacefully coexist with other dogs in some cases, but it&rsquo;s important to have a plan in place before the second dog comes into the picture.</span><br /><br /><em>Does he get overly aroused when playing?</em><br /><span>Having a playmate can be a fantastic way for a dog to burn energy on a regular basis. But your dog should able to regulate his arousal, so he doesn&rsquo;t tip into &ldquo;fight&rdquo; mode during a play session. Both dogs need to have the ability to take <em>lots</em> of breaks during play, and to understand how to stop playing before it gets too intense.</span><br /><br /><em>What is my dog&rsquo;s play style?</em><br /><span>Some dogs like to wrestle while others crave a good chase. Knowing your dog&rsquo;s play style will help you determine what kind of playmate he&rsquo;s most suited to. Look for a second dog that finds your dog&rsquo;s play style fun rather than frightful.</span><br /><br /><em>Is my current dog trained to my satisfaction?</em><br /><span>This one is critical. Before even thinking about a second dog, your current dog&rsquo;s training should be firmly in place, both indoors and out. If he begs at the table, destroys your furniture, pulls on leash, or barks relentlessly, those issues need to be addressed first. Once a new dog enters your home, you will likely find yourself with a lot less time to focus on dog number one.</span><br /><br /><em>What traits am I looking for in a new dog? Are these expectations realistic?</em><br /><span>Looking for a dog is a bit like buying a home, in that we tend to make a long list of &ldquo;must-haves,&rdquo; only to find that our expectations are unrealistic. So make your list and then revise it until you have honed in on a few essential qualities that dog number two needs to have. Focus on behavioral traits rather than aesthetic ones; and if you're looking for a playmate, rule out dogs that are too big or small to safely play with your current pup. Just as with your first dog, expect the second one to have both amazing qualities and some quirks to be ironed out. Are you prepared for that?</span><br /><br /><em>Do I have the time for training a new dog and addressing potential behavior issues?</em><br /><span>If you&rsquo;re considering a second dog because you don&rsquo;t have time to exercise the first one, you may get into hot water. Your playful new pup will likely be young and have lots of energy. I tell clients that two dogs are actually triple, not double, the work. You have to tend to the individual needs of dog one and dog two, and then also address the interactions between them. Are you prepared for the training that accompanies a new playful, energetic dog?&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span>Choosing to get a second dog is a decision that should be led by your brain rather than your heart. By doing your homework ahead of time, you&rsquo;ll be able to find the perfect canine sibling.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Generalized Anxiety Disorder]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/generalized-anxiety-disorder]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/generalized-anxiety-disorder#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2023 16:54:47 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Behavior Issues]]></category><category><![CDATA[Separation Anxiety]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/generalized-anxiety-disorder</guid><description><![CDATA[Feeling stressed out lately? You're far from alone. We humans are getting better at understanding how anxiety affects us, and we are perpetually coming up with new and more effective ways to alleviate it.&nbsp;But what about our dogs? Like us, our dogs can suffer from anxiety in both small and large ways. Most dog behavior consultants like me are getting increasingly concerned, as we have noticed a significant uptick in the number of anxiety cases we see. Daily tasks like going for walks, having [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Feeling stressed out lately? You're far from alone. We humans are getting better at understanding how anxiety affects us, and we are perpetually coming up with new and more effective ways to alleviate it.&nbsp;<br><br>But what about our dogs? Like us, our dogs can suffer from anxiety in both small and large ways. Most dog behavior consultants like me are getting increasingly concerned, as we have noticed a significant uptick in the number of anxiety cases we see. Daily tasks like going for walks, having guests over, hearing certain noises, or looking out the window can trigger some dogs' anxiety. When a dog responds to seemingly innocuous things in an anxious way, he/she may be suffering from Generalized Anxiety Disorder.<br><br>The good news is that, as with humans, dogs can benefit from behavior modification training to reduce anxiety and give them happier, healthier lives. Watch my interview on AKC TV's <em>Ask the Expert</em> to learn the ins and outs of dog anxiety.&nbsp;</div><div><div id="792220844457695024" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/series-video?id=9033&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stranger Danger!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/stranger-danger]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/stranger-danger#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Behavior Issues]]></category><category><![CDATA[L: Leash Walking]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/stranger-danger</guid><description><![CDATA[One of the most pervasive myths about dog behavior is that dogs should be friendly with everyone -- humans and canines alike -- nearly all of the time. While it's true that dogs are an incredibly social species, putting such pressure on them is unfair.&nbsp;Think about another very social species: humans. Imagine if we were expected to be friends with all other people, in all situations. Yes, including that coworker who drives you crazy. And uh-huh, even that stranger on the bus who looks at you [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">One of the most pervasive myths about dog behavior is that dogs should be friendly with everyone -- humans and canines alike -- nearly all of the time. While it's true that dogs are an incredibly social species, putting such pressure on them is unfair.&nbsp;<br><br>Think about another very social species: humans. Imagine if we were expected to be friends with all other people, in all situations. Yes, including that coworker who drives you crazy. And uh-huh, even that stranger on the bus who looks at you just a little too long and gives you the creeps. Thanks, but most of us would pass.&nbsp;<br><br><em>Click Read More if you don't see the text below.</em><br></div><div><div id="256517851241407303" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/episode?id=6089&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph"><span>Similarly, for many dogs, being confronted by individuals outside their inner circle presents a significant level of stress. This is very common, and in some breeds, it is part of their genetic makeup. Every ringing doorbell signals that danger may be on your doorstep, and every stranger that passes by the window needs to be reminded to keep a distance.&nbsp;</span><br><br><span>While some dogs exhibit stranger danger -- hiding, growling, barking, even biting unfamiliar people -- in the home, it can happen outside as well. Leashed walks may force your dog to get closer and closer to an approaching stranger, without the ability to escape. Should that stranger reach out to pet your frazzled, trapped pup, he could bite.</span><br><br><span>With the help of a qualified behavior consultant, you can teach your dog strategies to feel more comfortable in the presence of a stranger. The particular strategy will depend on several factors: the intensity of your dog's reaction, your environment, the underlying emotions (e.g., fear versus protective instinct), and your commitment to the training process in both the short- and long-term.</span><br><br><span>Watch the video above for some tips to reduce stranger-danger when on a walk.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[​Recall Checklist: Do you make these mistakes?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/recall-checklist-do-you-make-these-mistakes]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/recall-checklist-do-you-make-these-mistakes#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2022 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Hand Target]]></category><category><![CDATA[Recall]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/recall-checklist-do-you-make-these-mistakes</guid><description><![CDATA[Ensure your dog has a solid recall before going to off-leash areas. If your dog slips from his collar or sees a fight breaks out at the dog park, will he respond to your &ldquo;come&rdquo; cue? When your dog is in harm&rsquo;s way, a solid recall can save him from danger. These are some of the most frequent errors that handlers make when teaching their dogs to come when called. Do you make any of them?&#8203;Mistake 1: &ldquo;Come&rdquo; means &ldquo;the fun is over&rdquo;One of the biggest mist [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/dog-come.jpg?1560435099" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="dog come" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Ensure your dog has a solid recall before going to off-leash areas.</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">If your dog slips from his collar or sees a fight breaks out at the dog park, will he respond to your &ldquo;come&rdquo; cue? When your dog is in harm&rsquo;s way, a solid recall can save him from danger. These are some of the most frequent errors that handlers make when teaching their dogs to come when called. Do you make any of them?<br /><br /><br /><strong>&#8203;Mistake 1: &ldquo;Come&rdquo; means &ldquo;the fun is over&rdquo;</strong><br />One of the biggest mistakes is to cue &ldquo;come,&rdquo; and when your dog runs to you, he is confronted with a negative consequence. For example, if you only call him when it&rsquo;s time to leave the dog park, it&rsquo;s no wonder he doesn&rsquo;t like the word &ldquo;come.&rdquo; Imagine if your friend called you over and, when you arrived, she promptly threw a pie in your face. Wouldn&rsquo;t you think twice the next time she asks you to come close to her? The fact is that, particularly with recall, your dog can choose whether to comply with your cue or to blow you off. Make sure he wants to choose you.<br /><em>The solution:</em> When you practice recall (which should be often!), make sure there is a positive consequence to coming. When Fido comes to you, start a game of fetch. Or reward with a treat. Or provide any other positive result. When it&rsquo;s time to leave the dog park, reward Fido for coming with a piece of cheese, and then clip on the leash to leave.<br /><em>Click Read More if you don't see the text below.</em><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><strong><span>&#8203;Mistake 2: Getting ahead of yourself</span></strong><br /><span>You wouldn&rsquo;t put a fifth grader into a PhD program and expect him to excel, would you? So why is it we expect young or newly adopted dogs to follow our cues when we put them into PhD-level scenarios such as the dog park? Think of distractions as grade levels. Your dog should start his recall training when there are very low, elementary-level distractions. For instance, start teaching recall in your living room. From there you can work your way up the grades, to increasingly higher distraction areas. Progress to a backyard, then a park with no animals around, and finally the dog park. If you skip a grade, it&rsquo;s not realistic to expect your dog to respond correctly.</span><br /><span><em>The solution:</em> Make a list of ten or more things that distract your dog, from low to high intensity. Then, methodically practice recall in the presence of these distractions, starting with the lowest intensity.</span><br /><br /><strong><span>Mistake 3: Getting angry</span></strong><br /><span>It&rsquo;s natural to get frustrated when your dog doesn&rsquo;t respond to your cues. Nevertheless, punishing your dog when he finally comes to you will only make the problem worse. Dogs come to people they trust, not people they fear. If your dog took his time coming to you, it most likely means he&rsquo;s not ready to respond in that particular scenario.&nbsp;</span><br /><span><em>The solution: </em>Take a step back and practice recall in less distracting areas. Make sure to reward with something your dog absolutely loves, to help him choose you over the other things in the environment.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong><span>Mistake 4: Giving up</span></strong><br /><span>Do you cue &ldquo;come&rdquo; once and then wait, motionless, for Rover to weigh his options? You probably need to kick up your energy level a bit. Since the act of coming to you takes several seconds or more, your dog may need extra encouragement to keep him focused on you as he passes squirrels, dogs, and other distractions en route. While trainers tell owners to only say the cue once, that doesn&rsquo;t mean you can&rsquo;t encourage Rover with enthusiastic clapping, inviting body language, and cheers as he comes.</span><br /><span><em>The solution: </em>Cue &ldquo;come&rdquo; once, but use a friendly tone of voice and inviting gestures to help your dog get all the way to you. Most dogs just want to play, and if you make yourself fun, your dog is much more likely to choose you.</span><br /><br /><span>Make sure your dog is recall-ready in all situations. It could be a life saver!<br /><br /></span><em>This article originally ran&nbsp;<a href="https://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/recall-checklist-do-you-make-these-mistakes/" target="_blank">here at petguide.com</a>.</em><span></span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Three Easy Ways to Teach your Dog to Calm Down]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/three-easy-ways-to-teach-your-dog-to-calm-down]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/three-easy-ways-to-teach-your-dog-to-calm-down#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jan 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[K: Knocking People Over]]></category><category><![CDATA[Place]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/three-easy-ways-to-teach-your-dog-to-calm-down</guid><description><![CDATA[ It&rsquo;s no secret that dogs, especially youngsters, aren&rsquo;t always the best at calming themselves down.&nbsp;Maybe your dog gets himself all worked up after a play session, playfully nips and barks to get attention, or does flips while you&rsquo;re trying to attach the leash. Overly excited behavior can take many forms.&#8203;The solution is not to punish the excitement, but rather to teach the dog to perform a polite behavior instead of the excited one. These three training techniques  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/editor/img-2896.jpeg?1565177361" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="calm dog relaxing" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><font color="#2a2a2a">It&rsquo;s no secret that dogs, especially youngsters, aren&rsquo;t always the best at calming themselves down.&nbsp;Maybe your dog gets himself all worked up after a play session, playfully nips and barks to get attention, or does flips while you&rsquo;re trying to attach the leash. Overly excited behavior can take many forms.<br /><br />&#8203;The solution is not to punish the excitement, but rather to teach the dog to perform a polite behavior instead of the excited one. </font><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">These three training techniques teach your dog to cool his jets.<br /><br /><em>Click Read More if you don't see the text below.</em></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#2a2a2a">Say &ldquo;Please&rdquo; for Everything You Want</font></span><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Your dog&rsquo;s way of saying &ldquo;please&rdquo; is the almighty Sit. Teach your dog that, whenever he wants something, he has to sit for it. This requires him to control his impulses, even when he is excited or frustrated. To get started, make a list of all the things your dog wants from you on a daily basis. We call these &ldquo;life rewards.&rdquo; (See the video at the bottom of this article.)&nbsp;Some items may include getting:</font><ul><li><font color="#2a2a2a">the leash put on,</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">the door opened to go outside,</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">a game of fetch or tug,</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">meals, and</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">permission on the couch or bed with you.</font></li></ul> <font color="#2a2a2a">Whenever you&rsquo;re ready to give your dog one of these life rewards, you&rsquo;ll ask him to sit, just once, and wait for him to put his rear on the ground.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">What if he doesn&rsquo;t sit on the first request? No sit, no reward. You&rsquo;ll turn away, take a few deep breaths, and turn back to your dog to ask again. The moment he sits for the leash, meal, or other life reward, immediately give it to him. Good dog! For your dog to learn to be truly polite in all situations, you will implement this strategy for everything your dog wants, every time.</font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#2a2a2a">Place</font></span><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">The Place cue means &ldquo;go to your mat and stay there until I release you.&rdquo; If your dog tends to engage in jumping on people, door-dashing, getting underfoot, or countersurfing, Place can keep your dog out of harm&rsquo;s way. (<a href="https://youtu.be/fNWGX2RWb_c" target="_blank">See it in action here</a>.)&nbsp; In my home, I use this cue when:</font><ul><li><font color="#2a2a2a">I&rsquo;m cooking,</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">we&rsquo;re eating at the table,&nbsp;</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">my not-so-dog-friendly guests are visiting,&nbsp;</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">I open the door for visitors or deliveries.</font></li></ul><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">To teach the basic level of Place, choose a mat, bed, or towel for your dog to lie on. Follow this training sequence:</font><ol><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Say &ldquo;place&rdquo; and point or lure your dog onto the mat.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">Once all four paws are on the mat, ask him to lie down.&nbsp;</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">While he&rsquo;s lying on the mat, you&rsquo;ll pause for three seconds, then drop a treat on the mat between his paws. Repeat this sequence of pausing and treating.&nbsp;</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">After several treats, say &ldquo;okay&rdquo; and release him from the mat.</font></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a">As your dog gets better at this, you will increase the pauses between treats. This will build your dog&rsquo;s ability to control his impulses and stay on the mat for longer periods of time.</font></li></ol><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#2a2a2a">Protocol for Relaxation</font></span><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Dr. Karen Overall has created a practical plan for teaching your dog to remain calm even when you walk away, answer the door, or do a number of other exciting activities. And it&rsquo;s free to&nbsp;<a href="https://journeydogtraining.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/ProtocolforRelaxation.pdf" target="_blank">read or download here</a>!&nbsp;&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">The Protocol for Relaxation is a 15-day program, though you can go at your dog&rsquo;s pace. It lays out very specific instructions for how to build your dog&rsquo;s impulse control even for long durations, at long distances, and in the presence of distractions. Dr. Overall wrote it so that anyone, not just experienced trainers, can implement the protocol.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Learning to chill is one of the most important life skills a dog can acquire. You'll be greatly rewarded when you put in the time to teach your dog the polite way to interact with everything and everyone in his daily life.<br /><br /><em>&#8203;This article originally ran <a href="https://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/3-easy-ways-to-teach-your-dog-to-calm-down/" target="_blank">here on petguide.com</a>.</em></font></div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/U3z7iPxk0zg?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[​But They Said He Was Housetrained!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/but-they-said-he-was-housetrained]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/but-they-said-he-was-housetrained#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2021 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Adoption and Rescue]]></category><category><![CDATA[Management]]></category><category><![CDATA[N: Naughty When Alone]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/but-they-said-he-was-housetrained</guid><description><![CDATA[As a dog trainer working with many apartment-dwelling clients, housetraining is an important, sometimes messy topic. Many people adopt a dog or puppy, or get one from a breeder, with the assurance that the dog is housetrained. But minutes after bringing their bundle of joy home, Rover starts leaving housewarming presents on their handcrafted oriental rug.&nbsp;         Click Read More if you don't see the text below.      &nbsp; &nbsp;It's unlikely the rescue group or breeder is intentionally ly [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">As a dog trainer working with many apartment-dwelling clients, housetraining is an important, sometimes messy topic. Many people adopt a dog or puppy, or get one from a breeder, with the assurance that the dog is housetrained. But minutes after bringing their bundle of joy home, Rover starts leaving housewarming presents on their handcrafted oriental rug.&nbsp;<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/pexels-samson-katt-5255610_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><em>Click Read More if you don't see the text below.</em></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;It's unlikely the rescue group or breeder is intentionally lying, but owners often feel frustrated and ill-prepared to deal with frequent accidents. The fact is that a dog might be house trained in one environment, such as the foster home, but if he hasn&rsquo;t been exposed to other homes, he may not realize the rules apply to all indoor areas. Further complicating matters is that people have different opinions about what housetraining is: for some, it means installing a doggie door, others allow dogs to use a pad to go potty indoors, and still others will claim a dog is housetrained even if he has occasional accidents indoors. None of these may fit your definition. To me, &ldquo;housetrained&rdquo; means that a dog knows with certainty where to go potty, whether it&rsquo;s on a pad or outside, and will go there every single time he has to &ldquo;go.&rdquo; I don&rsquo;t trust a dog is housetrained until he&rsquo;s gone at least three months with zero accidents. If you live in a climate with changeable weather, I would get through every kind of weather &mdash; extreme cold and snow, heat, rain &mdash; before giving your pup his diploma in housetraining. That could easily take six months!&nbsp;</span><br /><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;Keep in mind housetraining is not easy for many dogs. Growing puppies have questionable self-control in many areas but especially bladder control. And older dogs may have come from an environment where the rules were different or nonexistent. Learning takes time, patience, and consistency. Follow these steps to ensure you&rsquo;re setting your dog up for a successful housetraining routine.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong>If at first you don&rsquo;t succeed&hellip;.&nbsp;</strong><br /><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;Take your dog to his potty spot as often as possible, whether it&rsquo;s outside or on a pad. Sure, this means that sometimes he will not go potty when you take him there, but keep trying throughout the day until he pees or poops in the right spot. For puppies learning to go potty outside, this could mean going out every 30-60 minutes, as well as right after they&rsquo;ve done anything (woken up, eaten, played for five minutes, etc.). Adult dogs can hold it for longer, but you still should give them tons of opportunities to go potty in the right place. The more bathroom breaks you take in the beginning, the smoother and faster your housetraining will go.</span><br /><br /><strong>When in doubt, confine</strong><br /><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;At all times, your un-housetrained dog should either be actively supervised or safely confined in a place where an accident won&rsquo;t occur. If you have to leave the room your dog is in, plan to take him with you or enclose him in a safe place. For a puppy, this likely means an exercise pen with a pee pad protecting the floor. Puppies should not be expected to hold it, especially if they have just woken up or engaged in an activity. For an older dog, a crate works well, as dogs prefer not to eliminate where they sleep. You can also keep your dog on leash or even carry a small dog to ensure he doesn&rsquo;t sneak off to pee in your closet when you turn your back. All of these options are short-term techniques, intended for times you can&rsquo;t keep an eye on your dog. If you have a safe, enclosed outdoor area, you can also give your dog extra potty breaks outside when you can&rsquo;t watch him.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong>Potty time&nbsp; = Party time!&nbsp;</strong><br /><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;When your dog goes potty in the right place, celebrate with cheers and treats as soon as he&rsquo;s finished. (Cheering while he&rsquo;s doing his business can startle him.) This will make a positive association with doing his business in that place. On the flip side, since you will always be supervising your dog while inside (and confining him if he can&rsquo;t be supervised), you&rsquo;ll be there to catch an accident. While he is having the accident, try to interrupt him with a quick clap and then whisk him to his potty place. If he goes potty in the right place (which may not happen), cheer and reward. Remember to clean accidents thoroughly with an enzymatic cleaner.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong>Earning freedom</strong><br /><span>&nbsp; &nbsp;After a full month of accident-free living, you can slowly give your dog a little freedom, such as allowing him five minutes of unsupervised, unconfined time in the living room. With each passing month of no accidents, give him one more level of freedom, giving your dog access to more rooms for longer durations without being supervised. If your dog has an unsupervised accident, it probably means he&rsquo;s been given too much freedom too fast. Go back to the previous level of freedom for a solid month.<br /><br /></span><em>This article originally ran&nbsp;<a href="https://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/pee-problems-a-pro-shares-how-to-housetrain-any-dog/" target="_blank">here at petguide.com</a>.</em><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Disciplining is Not Teaching]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/disciplining-is-not-teaching]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/disciplining-is-not-teaching#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2021 12:52:34 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[L: Leash Walking]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/disciplining-is-not-teaching</guid><description><![CDATA[Puppies &mdash; and many adult dogs &mdash; test your patience. Chewed furniture, barking at noises outside, puddles of pee, and don&rsquo;t even get me started on the play biting! Besides buying wine in bulk, how can you cope? A lot of it has to do with the way you view yourself, and your role, in your dog&rsquo;s life.You may remember that one special instructor or coach from your past who motivated you to study harder or to aim higher; conversely, you may recall the teacher who simply seemed  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Puppies &mdash; and many adult dogs &mdash; test your patience. Chewed furniture, barking at noises outside, puddles of pee, and don&rsquo;t even get me started on the play biting! Besides buying wine in bulk, how can you cope? A lot of it has to do with the way you view yourself, and your role, in your dog&rsquo;s life.<br /><br />You may remember that one special instructor or coach from your past who motivated you to study harder or to aim higher; conversely, you may recall the teacher who simply seemed &ldquo;out to get you,&rdquo; waiting for you to make a mistake in order to punish you. Now it&rsquo;s your turn to be a teacher to your dog, so which kind do you want to be? Here are some things to keep in mind, especially in those moments when you feel frustrated by your dog&rsquo;s behavior.<br />&#8203;<br /><em>Click "Read More" below if you don't see the text below.</em><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/dachshund-672780-1920.jpg?1616504241" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>1. Be a Teacher</strong><br /><span>Teaching and disciplining are not the same. When we think about humans, it&rsquo;s easy to see the effects of a good teacher. We already know a good teacher approaches her student with compassion and empathy, not dominance. She acknowledges that her student lacks something, possibly a life skill (&ldquo;Kevin doesn&rsquo;t share with the other kids&rdquo;) or an academic skill (&ldquo;Maggie is struggling to spell new words&rdquo;), and then, she provides her student with the tools to overcome that hurdle. Ultimately, the teacher&rsquo;s goal is to leave that student in a more skilled position than when they first met.</span><br /><br /><span>The same holds true for the relationship with you and your dog. For instance, a lot of dogs pull on leash during walks. As your dog&rsquo;s compassionate teacher, you:</span><ol><li>Have empathy for your dog. From your dog&rsquo;s perspective, walking slowly a leash makes absolutely no sense and can actually cause a great deal of stress, since he is not able to wander, stop, and sniff as dogs naturally do. And then&hellip;</li><li>Teach your dog that walking on a loose leash is actually enjoyable. This could involve positive reinforcement for walking next to you, to show your dog how fun it is to stay close to you rather than pull ahead.</li></ol> <span>In principle, it&rsquo;s simple. But as any teacher knows, teaching a life skill, without force, takes a lot of time, repetition, and patience.</span><br /><br /><strong><em>Remember:&nbsp;</em></strong><span>A good teacher asks, &ldquo;What skills does this student need to become successful?&rdquo; and provides the tools to achieve it, without force or pain.</span><br /><br /><strong>2. Don&rsquo;t be a Disciplinarian</strong><br /><span>Disciplining, on the other hand, is intended to stop an unwanted behavior at that moment. And it works! If the teacher snaps at Kevin, &ldquo;Stop stealing Jenny&rsquo;s snack!&rdquo; and she slaps the cookie from his little hand, it will stop the unwanted behavior in that moment. But what has Kevin learned, except that teachers are scary? Will he stop stealing, or simply wait until the teacher&rsquo;s back is turned? While his teacher may have scared him into not stealing for the moment, she has not given Kevin any productive skills to help him the next time he has the urge to grab someone's cookie.</span><br /><br /><span>When a teacher uses discipline instead of trying to understanding the student&rsquo;s motivation for doing the unwanted behavior, the aim is to suppress, not to teach. All too often, discipline is simply a way for the disciplinarian to unload her own frustration on the student. And when something painful or scary is applied again and again, we need to acknowledge it for what it truly is: abuse.</span><br /><br /><span>It&rsquo;s easy to apply this to the leash-walking example. Every time a handler pops the leash, euphemistically called a &ldquo;correction,&rdquo; the dog is yanked back and a little slack is created. In that moment, the discipline has indeed stopped the pulling. But what has the dog learned? And how many leash pops will a dog have to endure on every walk, without being given any constructive information about how to walk properly? In order to teach a skill, we cannot simply set the dog up to do the wrong thing (pull) and then punish him for doing so. This is a sure fire way to erode your dog&rsquo;s trust in you and cause him unnecessary stress. Rather, we must create situations where it is easy for the dog to do the right thing (walk on a loose leash) and acknowledge when he&rsquo;s doing it correctly. This not only builds skills but trust. We must set our dogs up to succeed, not fail.</span><br /><br /><strong><em>Remember</em></strong><span>: A disciplinarian asks, &ldquo;How can I make this behavior stop?&rdquo; without providing constructive tools for the student to behave more appropriately.</span><br /><br /><span>While this may be a simplified example, you don&rsquo;t need all the details of learning theory to grasp the main takeaway: You have a choice in what kind of role &mdash; teacher or disciplinarian &mdash; you will play in your dog&rsquo;s training and daily life. Choose wisely.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ding Dong! Resolving Doggie Doorbell Drama]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/doggie-doorbell-drama]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/doggie-doorbell-drama#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2021 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[B: Barking]]></category><category><![CDATA[Doorbell Solutions]]></category><category><![CDATA[Management]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/doggie-doorbell-drama</guid><description><![CDATA[Does the doorbell send your dog into a frenzy? A simple management solution will keep your dog from going bonkers when he hears that irresistible “ding-dong!” I describe the steps below in AKC TV's Ask the Expert.​When teaching your dog polite behaviors, you have a choice: training or management. Training doorbell etiquette involves teaching your dog to do a polite behavior like a sit-stay instead of running and barking at the door. It’s a great skill but requires methodical implementati [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:405px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/fence-3639200-1920.jpg?1614174866" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span><div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Does the doorbell send your dog into a frenzy? A simple management solution will keep your dog from going bonkers when he hears that irresistible &ldquo;ding-dong!&rdquo; I describe the steps below in AKC TV's <em>Ask the Expert</em>.<br><br>&#8203;<span>When teaching your dog polite behaviors, you have a choice: training or management. Training doorbell etiquette involves teaching your dog to do a polite behavior like a sit-stay instead of running and barking at the door. It&rsquo;s a great skill but requires methodical implementation on the owner&rsquo;s part, plus high impulse control on the dog&rsquo;s part.<br><br><em>Click "Read More" below if you don't see the text below.</em></span><br></div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div><div id="179372135701101818" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/series-video?id=6084&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;">Management, on the other hand, is easier to apply. It involves setting up an environment in which barking and jumping at the door is impossible, simply by removing the dog from that area. The downside is that management doesn&rsquo;t teach your dog to be polite; it only prevents him from engaging in the rude behavior. Still, it provides a great quick fix until you can implement a training protocol.<br><br>Here are the steps to what I call &ldquo;Breakfast in Bed,&rdquo; a way to manage both doorbell reactivity and the inevitable jumping on guests that follows.<ol><li>Practice several repetitions of (A) ringing the doorbell (or playing a doorbell recording) and (B) immediately giving your dog a super tasty treat that he normally doesn&rsquo;t have. We are conditioning him to associate the doorbell with top-notch treats. Practice this until your dog, hearing the bell, will consistently run to you for the treat rather than run to the door.</li><li>Once he gets the &ldquo;game,&rdquo; stuff lots of those tasty treats in a treat-dispensing toy. If your dog loves peanut butter, you can freeze a LickiMat or Kong Classic with peanut butter inside, which will take your dog several minutes to enjoy. Now, when you ring the bell, happily exclaim &ldquo;breakfast in bed!&rdquo; Run to grab your stuffed toy, and toss the toy in your bedroom or in the dog&rsquo;s crate. Encourage your dog to follow. Once inside, shut the door, leaving your dog alone to eat.</li><li>After a minute or whenever he&rsquo;s done eating, sneak into the bedroom. Before letting him out, ask him to &ldquo;sit&rdquo; first. Give the cue only once. If your dog sits, swing the door open and let him out. If he does not sit, shut the door and wait 5-10 seconds, then try again. Only polite dogs get the reward of being released.</li><li>Practice this sequence <em>many</em> times before guests actually come over, so it&rsquo;s like second nature. Always have a stuffed toy ready in case you get a surprise ring or knock at the door.</li></ol>When friends come over, I recommend leaving your dog in the bedroom with a buffet of goodies until your guests have settled into chairs and are less excited themselves. Once your guests are relaxed, you can release your dog to say hello.<br><br>If your dog shows intense doorbell reactivity or fear of guests, don't go it alone. Reach out to a <a href="https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trainer-behaviorist">qualified professional</a> to give you a more tailored solution.<br><br><em><span>This article originally ran on&nbsp;</span><a href="http://www.petguide.com/petcare/dog/quick-fix-doggie-doorbell-drama/" target="_blank">petguide.com.</a><span>&nbsp;</span></em></div><div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"><div class="wsite-youtube-container"><iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/uuu0TYTi5uQ?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Stop Begging at the Table]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/how-to-stop-begging-at-the-table]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/how-to-stop-begging-at-the-table#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2020 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Place]]></category><category><![CDATA[Training]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/how-to-stop-begging-at-the-table</guid><description><![CDATA[Dinnertime is when you&rsquo;re supposed to unplug, unwind, and just savor the moment. But if your dog is crying for a bit of your food, jumping up on the table, or pawing at you during your dinner, it&rsquo;s hard to relax. Want to fix this problem for good? Here&rsquo;s how.Management is KeyWhy do most dogs beg? Because it works! If anyone in your family gives Fido a piece of pasta or a sliver of steak from the table, it has taught him that begging works. Dogs are always learning, not just dur [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">Dinnertime is when you&rsquo;re supposed to unplug, unwind, and just savor the moment. But if your dog is crying for a bit of your food, jumping up on the table, or pawing at you during your dinner, it&rsquo;s hard to relax. Want to fix this problem for good? Here&rsquo;s how.</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">Management is Key</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Why do most dogs beg? Because it works! If anyone in your family gives Fido a piece of pasta or a sliver of steak from the table, it has taught him that begging works. Dogs are always learning, not just during training sessions. This means that every time you slip Fido a chunk of chicken from your fork, you are literally teaching him to beg more. </font><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">What if you have small children who drop food at the table? Though it&rsquo;s unintentional, Fido will make the same association and will continue to beg.&nbsp;</span><font color="#2a2a2a">So if you want your dog to keep away from the table, he must never, ever be given food there. It&rsquo;s your job to teach your pup that begging doesn&rsquo;t work, no matter how much he persists.&nbsp;<br /><em>Click "Read More" if you don't see the text below.</em></font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/begging-dog_orig.jpg" alt="dog begging at the table" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">The easiest management solution, then, is to physically remove your dog from the dining area.&nbsp;</font><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">For low-key beggars, you may be able to keep your dog off the table with a gentle body-block,&nbsp;</span><a href="https://youtu.be/y-Ju0wCFJeQ?t=73" target="_blank">as I did here with Margaret</a><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">&nbsp;when we first adopted her. For the more persistent pup, u</span><font color="#2a2a2a">se a gate or fence to prevent him from entering during dinner. If that won&rsquo;t work, your dog can go into any other safe place: his crate, the backyard, or a bedroom. Or use his leash to tie him to a nearby banister or sturdy table leg (and bring his bed there), so he can watch you eat but can&rsquo;t participate. If he protests about being removed from the fun, give him his doggie dinner in a food-dispensing toy, which will keep him busy.&nbsp;<br /></font><br /><strong><span><font color="#2a2a2a">Training: Yes, it's Possible!&nbsp;</font></span></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">There are a few useful training techniques to teach your dog what to do while you&rsquo;re eating. If your dog has never developed a habit of begging, training your dog to mind his own business during dinner should be simple. On the other hand, it may take some time for those who have a long history of joining you at the table. Stay committed to the training process and understand that it&rsquo;s really challenging for a dog to resist the temptation of food.</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Remember that dogs, by nature, are scavengers. Evolution has favored dogs that are skilled at begging and picking up scraps of food, so we can&rsquo;t expect your pooch to understand why begging is undesirable. Set your dog up for success by teaching him it doesn&rsquo;t pay to beg.</font><br /><br /><strong><span><font color="#2a2a2a">Go to Your Bed</font></span></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Start by teaching your dog a Place cue, which means &ldquo;go to your bed and stay there until I release you.&rdquo; The dog bed should be within view of the dining area, so you can monitor your dog. In the beginning, you&rsquo;ll likely have to get up from the table numerous times to reward your dog for his good behavior, or reset him if he gets up before you release him. See an example of how I teach Place <a href="https://youtu.be/fNWGX2RWb_c" target="_blank">here</a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">To teach the basic level of Place, choose a mat or bed for your dog to lie on.&nbsp;</font><ol><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">Say &ldquo;place&rdquo; and point or lure your dog onto the mat.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">Once all four paws are on the mat, ask him to lie down.&nbsp;</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">While he&rsquo;s lying on the mat, you&rsquo;ll pause for three seconds (or as long as your dog can remain stable), then drop a treat on the mat between his paws. Repeat this sequence of pausing and treating.&nbsp;</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">After several treats, say &ldquo;okay&rdquo; and release him from the mat.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#2a2a2a">As your dog gets better at this, you will increase the pauses between treats. This will build your dog&rsquo;s ability to control his impulses and stay on the mat for longer periods of time.</font></span></span></li></ol><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">You can practice this while you&rsquo;re at the dinner table. With consistency, your dog will learn to go to his bed automatically when you sit at the table. After a little while you won&rsquo;t need to worry about rewarding or resetting anymore. Release him when you&rsquo;re done eating, and his reward can be permission to check the floor for any (dog-friendly) food you dropped.</font><br /><br /><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">What if You Drop Food?</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">A Leave It cue is useful for times when you&rsquo;ve dropped a piece of food and don&rsquo;t want your dog to rush over to eat it. (Remember, allowing him to eat it will only make the begging worse.) You can see the steps for a basic <a href="https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/teaching-leave-it-for-the-real-world">Leave It here</a>.</font><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Whether you use management or training, it&rsquo;s critical for everyone in your household to be consistent. Make a plan in your household for a management and/or training strategy, and stick to it.</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Resource Guarding is Scary but Treatable]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/resource-guarding-is-scary-but-treatable]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/resource-guarding-is-scary-but-treatable#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2020 21:06:16 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Behavior Issues]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/resource-guarding-is-scary-but-treatable</guid><description><![CDATA[Grabbing your puppy's chew may teach him to resource guard.Does your dog snarl when you try to take a toy from him? Growl when another dog approaches his food bowl? Or perhaps "protect" you from passing people or dogs on the sidewalk? If so, you may have a resource guarder.Resource guarding is a normal phenomenon in the animal world. A feral dog that doesn't guard his food is likely to starve. Even people guard what they find valuable. We set up security cameras around our properties, lock our v [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/resource-guard.jpg?1600712922" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="resource guarding dog" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Grabbing your puppy's chew may teach him to resource guard.</span></span><div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Does your dog snarl when you try to take a toy from him? Growl when another dog approaches his food bowl? Or perhaps "protect" you from passing people or dogs on the sidewalk? If so, you may have a resource guarder.<br><br>Resource guarding is a normal phenomenon in the animal world. A feral dog that doesn't guard his food is likely to starve. Even people guard what they find valuable. We set up security cameras around our properties, lock our valuables in safe places, and may refuse to share our hard-earned money with others. While our dogs don't have expensive jewelry or savings accounts, they do have items that are valuable to them: food, toys, chewies, sleeping spots, and beloved family members. And they don't want to lose their treasured belongings any more than you do.<br><br><em>Click</em> Read More <em>if you don't see the text below, and check out my interview with AKC TV for resource guarding tips.</em></div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div><div id="737448929612611077" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/episode?id=5592&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph">With domesticated dogs, it's true that many of them will happily give you their favorite rawhide, or be unfazed when you push them off the couch. But a number of dogs (including my own <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beans_cant_even/" target="_blank">Margaret</a>) feel threatened when a person or animal tries to take a valued item away. They may respond in a number of ways, hoping to scare you away:<ul><li>hovering over the item (food or toy)</li><li>hard stare</li><li>freezing and stiffening</li><li>lip curling, baring teeth, or growling</li><li>lunging towards the threat</li><li>snapping or biting</li></ul><br>Why do dogs resource guard? There are a variety of reasons. In some cases, a dog may have always had this tendency. But in other cases, the behavior has been learned. Sometimes an owner aims to teach their dog who's "boss" by intentionally removing the food bowl, chewy, or toy the dog is using. I've heard before, "Fido needs to learn that I can take his things away if I want to." In fact, this owner has actually taught the dog to guard more intensely. Fido's interpretation of the scenario sounds something like, "My person can't be trusted and will steal my food while I'm eating. Next time, I'll have to act even scarier to make him go away." Punishing the dog will make the situation even worse, confirming the Fido's fears that humans aren't to be trusted. Still, other times, a complicated family dynamic, lack of structure at home, or stressors in the environment can lead to a dog that feels threatened when someone gets too close to his [insert item or favorite person here].&nbsp;<br><br>The good news is that resource guarding is generally one of the most straightforward behavior issues to treat. While every protocol is unique, the behavior modification process generally involves teaching the dog that something awesome happens when a person approaches his food bowl, toys, etc. For instance, while your dog is eating his rawhide, you approach and, instead of grabbing the chewy, toss a piece of chicken at his feet and then walk away. After lots of reps like this, following a methodical plan, your dog will love your approach! Find a qualified&nbsp;<a href="https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trainer-behaviorist">dog behavior consultant</a>&nbsp;or veterinary behaviorist to help you build a plan that teaches your dog that he can trust you, and that it's actually pretty cool&nbsp;<em>not</em>&nbsp;to guard his treasured items.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Intro to Dog Parkour course... on sale now!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/intro-to-dog-parkour-on-sale-now]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/intro-to-dog-parkour-on-sale-now#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2020 00:46:25 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/intro-to-dog-parkour-on-sale-now</guid><description><![CDATA[Pssst... my Intro to Dog Parkour: For Titles or Just for Fun course on Udemy is just $9.99 until August 11! Use this link to get the discounted price.&nbsp;What is dog parkour, you ask? This Level 1 submission with Margaret demonstrates a lot of the basic parkour exercises. Think she's having fun?!        [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Pssst... my <em>Intro to Dog Parkour: For Titles or Just for Fun</em> course on Udemy is just $9.99 until August 11! <a href="https://www.udemy.com/course/intro-to-dog-parkour/?couponCode=3125FB65C3C366940FC7" target="_blank">Use this link to get the discounted price</a>.&nbsp;<br /><br />What is dog parkour, you ask? This Level 1 submission with Margaret demonstrates a lot of the basic parkour exercises. Think she's having fun?!</div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/fNBBH_MudDI?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help your Dog Cope, During and After COVID]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/help-your-dog-cope-during-and-after-covid]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/help-your-dog-cope-during-and-after-covid#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2020 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Life with Dogs]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/help-your-dog-cope-during-and-after-covid</guid><description><![CDATA[Mini-adventures will help you and your dog destress. Pandemic... unemployment... social unrest... fireworks every night. So, how are you holding up? It's OK to say, "I'm really struggling right now." And it's OK for your dog to be out-of-sorts, too.Our dogs look to us for structure and support, and these days, you might be forced into a situation that lacks both of those things. Perhaps you've left your urban apartment to stay with family in the countryside, or you haven't cracked open your fron [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/published/img-5675.jpeg?1594847366" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="dog  destress during pandemic" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">Mini-adventures will help you and your dog destress.</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Pandemic... unemployment... social unrest... fireworks every night. So, how are you holding up? It's OK to say, "I'm really struggling right now." And it's OK for your dog to be out-of-sorts, too.<br /><br />Our dogs look to us for structure and support, and these days, you might be forced into a situation that lacks both of those things. Perhaps you've left your urban apartment to stay with family in the countryside, or you haven't cracked open your front door since March. Your lifestyle changes can affect your dog's wellbeing, and you may have noticed more barking, constant clinginess, or other behavioral issues.&nbsp;<br /><em>Click </em>Read More<em> if you don't see the text below.</em></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br />&#8203;Like many city dwellers, I became apartment-bound overnight. This had a huge impact on my two dogs. Not only was I suddenly home all day ("Score!" they exclaimed), so were all my neighbors and their dogs ("Grrrr!").&nbsp; Beans and Margaret suddenly had the full-time job of "demo dogs" for all my Zoom lessons ("Yay, treats!"), but also had to learn -- while my students watched -- to take turns ("Why is <em>she</em> getting the treat and not me?") and to otherwise stay quiet while I was teaching ("Haha, but we're Chihuahuas!"). And now that we're living outside the city with relatives, new family dynamics have led to behavioral issues I never saw coming, from resource guarding of "grandpa" and his treat-filled pockets to refusing to go on walks.&nbsp;<br /><br />Some of this might sound familiar to you, too. So how can we help our dogs cope when we're barely coping ourselves? Here are a few tips to keep your and your dog's sanity relatively intact, even when the world around you seems to be falling apart.<br /><br /><strong><span>1. Keep a routine</span></strong><br />Try to keep your dog on some kind of schedule, whether it means waking up at the same time, taking a certain number of walks per day, or maintaining hobbies like fetch in the park or playtime at daycare (if it is open and safe). This can balance out the changes that you have no control over, such as being home 24/7.<br /><br /><strong><span>2. Spend time apart</span></strong><br />You can build separation into your day, even if you never open the front door. This will make the eventual transition to regular life less upsetting for Fido. Every day, I give each dog her meal in a food-dispensing toy in a room by herself. I close the doors while they eat, and keep it closed for a few minutes afterwards. It's a small daily reminder that being alone isn't the end of the world. If this is too challenging for your dog, a trainer or behavior consultant can help you ease your dog into separation. Don't wait for the day before you go back to the office!<br /><br /><strong><span>3. Have adventures!</span></strong><br />Some dogs get cabin fever, while others become so comfortable in one environment that they can't adapt to a new one. Take your dog on a mini-adventure every day or two: dog park, hiking trail, or just the sidewalk of the nearest town. If you've relocated temporarily, look for places nearby that feel like home, or if possible, visit your home once a week for a few hours. These trips prevent a shock when it's finally time to move back.<br /><br /><strong><span>4. Use your time wisely</span></strong><br />Do you have more free time lately? Use it to train your dog! Brush up on a skill that needs work (<a href="https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/stop-pulling-simple-leash-walking-solutions">leash walking</a>, anyone?). Or teach <a href="https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/trick-with-a-purpose-paw">a fun trick</a>, just because. Margaret and I are currently working on "jump through your arms." At least when the pandemic is over, we'll have a cool trick to show for it!<br /><br />Check out my <a href="https://www.doggieacademy.com/book-online/" target="_blank">online classes at Doggie Academy</a> including classes designed to tackle COVID-related stress!</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a href='https://www.doggieacademy.com/book-online/' target='_blank'> <img src="https://www.bklnmanners.com/uploads/2/8/4/3/28431373/jungle-0729_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Separation anxiety after COVID... Should you be worried?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/separation-anxiety-after-covid]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/separation-anxiety-after-covid#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2020 12:25:18 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Separation Anxiety]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.bklnmanners.com/home/separation-anxiety-after-covid</guid><description><![CDATA[The most common question I now get sounds something like this: "I've been working from home and my dog is in heaven. Should I be worried about him having separation anxiety when I go back to the office?"While every dog is different, there is certainly a chance your dog will be stressed out if you go back to long absences cold-turkey. And if your dog already has the tendency to cry when you leave, shadow you around the house, or be sensitive to changes in routine, the likelihood is even higher. N [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">The most common question I now get sounds something like this: "I've been working from home and my dog is in heaven. Should I be worried about him having separation anxiety when I go back to the office?"<br><br>While every dog is different, there is certainly a chance your dog will be stressed out if you go back to long absences cold-turkey. And if your dog already has the tendency to cry when you leave, shadow you around the house, or be sensitive to changes in routine, the likelihood is even higher. <em>Now</em> is the time to prepare your dog for the inevitable shift in schedule, even if your only absences include getting the mail or taking out the garbage.<br><br>Watch my recent appearance on AKC TV's <em>Ask the Expert</em>, full of tips for how to ease your dog back into a solitary lifestyle. If your dog struggles to be alone, consider an in-person or online lesson&nbsp;to start easing his stress.</div><div><div id="539454974120129351" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><div class="blive-responsive-iframe-wrapper" style="position:relative;padding-bottom:56.25%;height:0;overflow:hidden;max-width:100%;background:transparent;"><iframe class="blive_iframe blive_iframe_responsive" allowfullscreen="true" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" frameborder="0" src="https://akc.tv/episode?id=4602&amp;embed=true&amp;autoplay=false&amp;mute=true" width="980" height="551" style="position:absolute; top:0; left:0; margin:0; width:100%; height:100%;" allow="autoplay; fullscreen"></iframe></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>